it means: friendly asshole
A nickname a person will bestow upon others (and, even to themselves), to refer to their dichotomous personality. As the name denotes, while the person (usually a guy) may sound like a true asshole to an innocent bystander, their sarcastic, “with love” delivery, allows them to get away with their somewhat caustic comments. Frassholes are often endearing types, as opposed to your standard chat room bob.
- Special thanks to Allan Spiro for coining this term
NetLingo Classification: Online Jargon